Will this work:
SELECT A.Customer
, A.[Status]
, NumDays = SUM(DATEDIFF(d,A.LastUpdateDate , COALESCE(B.LastUpdateDate, GETDATE())))
FROM #TempTable A
OUTER APPLY (SELECT TOP 1 LastUpdateDate FROM #TempTable
WHERE LastUpdateDate > A.LastUpdateDate
AND A.Customer = Customer
ORDER BY LastUpdateDate) B
Group...