Many years ago I was training for a triathlon. I had competed in the Sandman Triathlon the previous year in Virginia Beach and wanted to do it again. I had a young child, work was busy, and I was struggling to find time to swim, bike, and run every week. One night, I was at a work event with a customer who was also a triathlete. He was much more competitive and successful than I was at competing in triathlons, and he told me I should just get up earlier and find time to train or ensure I spent time after work on training before I went home to ensure I was meeting my goals.

That sounded fine. Want to be better at something, then spend time on it. Certainly, that's what I often advocate for your career. Spend time on your career.

However, if I get up earlier, then that means I'm more tired at the end of the day. I'll go to sleep, or more likely fall asleep, earlier and miss time with my wife. She won't like that. If I try to ensure we get the same amount of time, I'd likely shortcut time with my kid. There's no magic way to find more time. If I take time to do one thing, I'm taking time away from something else.

The same thing happens at work. Our Chief Marketing Officer noted this at our global meetup recently, saying that too many people are adding new tasks or projects and letting other work fall away. They don't mean to let other work drop, and sometimes that's a problem, but the reality is that we can only get a certain amount of work done as a group, and if we add new work, old work gets lost. The same thing applies to coding software. We might get more work from a developer in the short term, but that falls apart long term, and it can be bad for retention.

Time is one of the most valuable resources you have in life. I see this more and more as I age, and you must recognize that it's a limited resource. For a short time, you might be able to get more time by sleeping less (or working more), but those things mean you are dropping other things in your life. That often isn't good for our health, relationships, or happiness over time.

If you want to do something more, or new, then you should consciously decide what to drop. You have to make decisions and choose what is a priority and what is not. The things that are not a priority might get dropped (or their time reduced). That's a big part of growing and maturing, as well as one of the worst parts. Making choices is hard.

Decisions you make are rarely permanent. They are often choices you make for a period of time. You'll make some great choices and those might be long-term or permanent. You might make bad choices, which hopefully are short-term, and then decide to make a new choice. Whether this is at work or in your personal life, make the choices that drive you forward, towards your goals, but with an eye on keeping a balance across all parts of your life.