My friend Ken Tucker invited me to speak on June 11, I'll be doing a short presentation on SQL performance and then trying to answer as many questions as I can with the goal of showing developers how and why the DBA's make such harsh demands of developers:-) It'll be fun to visit his group, and I'm hoping it clarifies for me a little why there is such a gap between DBA and developer.
Their web site is http://www.scdnug.org/.